— “Brace yourself. Your mother-in-law will drive you up the wall too,” the other daughters-in-law warned her. But Alina had her own method

Valentina Pavlovna stood in the middle of the young couple’s kitchen with a freshly ironed stack of dish towels in her arms.

“I sorted your towels by color — that’s the proper way,” she said, studying her daughter-in-law’s face as if it were a test.

She was clearly waiting for fireworks: a fight, hurt feelings, a cutting remark. Her shoulders were tight, her chin slightly raised — ready to defend herself.

But Alina only nodded, said, “Thank you,” and went to drink tea in the living room, leaving her mother-in-law staring after her in total confusion.

For the first time in many years, Valentina Pavlovna felt… unnecessary.

Alina Morozova grew up in an apartment where every object had a sacred, assigned place. Her mother, Irina Vladimirovna, taught literature at a prestigious secondary school and carried that teacherly strictness straight into her home. Towels hung by size, books were arranged by the height of their spines, and the cupboard of dishes was a model of geometric perfection.

“Alina, how many times do I have to say it — all the cup handles face the same direction!” Irina Vladimirovna scolded, rearranging the dishes yet again after her daughter washed up after dinner.

Twelve-year-old Alina sat at the kitchen table doing homework, watching her mother wipe each cup with almost obsessive precision until it shone, only then placing it “correctly” on the shelf.

“Mom, what difference does it make which way the handles point? It’s clean — that’s what matters.”

“It makes a huge difference! It’s basic household culture. You’ll never be a proper homemaker if you don’t understand that.”

Alina learned early: it was easier to keep quiet and let her mother redo everything than to spend hours listening to lectures about the importance of order. She wasn’t a slob — she simply didn’t see a disaster in the salt shaker standing to the left of the pepper instead of the right.

At university, where Alina studied programming, her calm became legendary. Other girls could turn a broken nail before a date into a full-scale drama, while Alina could show up in jeans and a T-shirt and genuinely not understand what the problem was.

Dmitry Karpov appeared in her life during her fourth year. The youngest of three brothers, he worked in IT and also taught part-time at her faculty. What won him over was that Alina never created scenes. When he was late for a date because of an unexpected meeting, she simply waited in a café with a book. When he forgot the “anniversary” of their first kiss, she laughed and said she only remembered it approximately herself.

“You’re special,” he told her when he proposed after two years together. “Life is so easy with you.”

Alina agreed to marry him not out of blazing passion, but out of a warm certainty: life with Dmitry felt comfortable. He didn’t demand a perfect housewife, didn’t expect culinary miracles, and didn’t sulk if she forgot to buy his favorite cheese.

Her first meeting with the Karpov family happened at Alexey Ivanovich’s sixty-fifth birthday — a serious, respectable date. Their two-story house in the suburbs hummed with voices. The oldest brother, Maksim, came with his wife Olga and their two children; the middle brother, Roman, arrived with Elena and their one-year-old daughter.

Valentina Pavlovna — a statuesque woman with an immaculate hairstyle — greeted Alina with an appraising look. She noticed the simple dress without jewelry, the minimal makeup, the calm smile.

At the table Alina sat between Dmitry and Olga, and Olga kept throwing her sympathetic looks, as if Alina had already been sentenced to something terrible.

“Alinochka, what do you cook for Dima for breakfast?” Valentina Pavlovna asked, passing the salad bowl.

“Usually he makes it himself — he’s quicker. I make coffee.”

Silence fell. Olga pressed a napkin to her mouth. Elena stared down into her plate.

“Himself?” Valentina Pavlovna lifted her brows. “Dimochka, you never said you have to—”

“Mom, I like making breakfast,” Dmitry replied evenly. “My scrambled eggs are better.”

The day after the wedding — which took place a month later — Olga and Elena put Alina through what they jokingly called “boot camp” in the kitchen while the men watched football.

“Brace yourself,” Olga said, pouring tea into cups. “For the first six months she’ll show up every other day.”

“She took my keys by the third month,” Elena added. “Said it was more convenient, so I wouldn’t get distracted at work when she brings groceries.”

“And then it starts,” Olga continued, counting on her fingers. “Why the frying pans are hanging wrong. Why the curtains aren’t ironed. Why you didn’t press your husband’s shirt. I gave Maksim an ultimatum three times: your mother or a divorce.”

Alina listened, stirring sugar into her tea. Their stories sounded like her own mother — just in a harsher, more aggressive version.

“So what helped?” she asked.

“Blowups,” Elena shrugged. “When I smashed her favorite vase and said I did it on purpose, she backed off for a month.”

“And I just banned her from coming over without calling,” Olga added. “Now she tortures Maksim, saying I’ve cut him off from his mother.”

Alina thought about it. She couldn’t fight, and she didn’t want to. Her whole life it had been easier to give way in small things than to waste energy on pointless battles.

Three months after the wedding, the newlyweds decided to freshen up their rented apartment. Nothing dramatic — re-wallpaper the bedroom, replace the kitchen linoleum with laminate.

“I’ll organize everything myself!” Valentina Pavlovna lit up as soon as she heard about the plan. “I’ve got a wonderful handyman, Nikolai — he did our bathroom.”

Dmitry tensed, but Alina spoke before he could object.

“That would be great, thank you.”

A week later, Valentina Pavlovna arrived with rolls of beige wallpaper with a faint pattern, laminate samples, and even new curtains.

“I figured if you’re renovating, everything should be in one style,” she said, spreading her purchases around the room. “Beige is classic — you won’t get tired of it.”

Dmitry waited for an outburst. He knew Alina wanted wallpaper with a geometric print; he’d seen the bookmarked options on her phone.

“It looks great,” Alina said, examining the samples. “You’re right — calm color, very versatile.”

“You… like it?” Valentina Pavlovna froze with a roll of wallpaper in her hands.

“Of course. The main thing is that it’s clean and nothing peels off. Beauty is relative anyway.”

Valentina Pavlovna lowered the roll, bewildered. She had come prepared to prove her taste was superior, armed with arguments about practicality and durability. And here… was agreement.

The renovation took a week. Nikolai really was a good handyman. Valentina Pavlovna supervised every step, while Alina made tea for everyone and sincerely thanked her for the help.

The following months turned into a strange quest for Valentina Pavlovna. She kept coming by with inspections, ready for battle — and each time she hit the same soft wall of easy acceptance.

She rearranged the dishes in the cupboards — Alina thanked her and said it actually was more convenient that way. She rehung the towels in the bathroom — the daughter-in-law remarked that it felt more spacious. She brought new kitchen curtains to replace “those awful little flowers” — Alina helped hang them and brewed fresh tea.

The peak came on a Saturday. Valentina Pavlovna arrived with a pot of borscht and found Alina trying to make Olivier salad.

“What is this?” the mother-in-law stared at the uneven cubes of vegetables.

“I’m attempting a salad,” Alina admitted. “But my chopping skills are… struggling.”

“The carrots are overcooked,” Valentina Pavlovna said, tasting a piece. “And the potatoes are falling apart. Come on, I’ll show you.”

For the next hour they worked side by side. Valentina Pavlovna taught her how to hold the knife properly, how to tell when vegetables were done, talked about proportions. Alina listened carefully, asked questions, and didn’t take any of the criticism personally.

“You have a real gift for teaching,” Alina said, tasting the finished salad. “Now it’s completely different.”

Valentina Pavlovna felt a warmth she wasn’t used to. Not the triumph of winning a battle — something else. The satisfaction of being valued.

“I brought borscht,” she fussed, as if suddenly remembering. “Dimochka likes it with sour cream.”

“It smells amazing,” Alina said. “Will you teach me how to make it like that?”

“I will,” Valentina Pavlovna smiled — truly, not the polite smile she usually wore around her daughters-in-law. “It’s my grandmother’s recipe. Special.”

At lunch Dmitry watched in disbelief as his mother and his wife discussed the finer points of borscht. No tension, no barbs — just two women talking about food.

Two years passed. In the Karpov family, Alina became a phenomenon. Olga and Elena couldn’t understand how she kept the peace. Valentina Pavlovna still visited often, but the visits were different now. She no longer came hunting for things to fix or criticize. She came with recipes, helped with canning, taught the household tricks she knew.

Dmitry enjoyed the calm. His brothers regularly listened to their wives complain about their mother’s visits, mediated after arguments, and were torn between two fires. Dmitry simply lived. He came home to a set table where his mother and his wife were discussing a new jam recipe.

“You’re letting her walk all over you,” Olga declared yet again at a family dinner. “It’s humiliating.”

“What exactly is humiliating?” Alina asked calmly, rocking her six-month-old son.

“She’s running your house!”

“She’s helping,” Alina replied. “Yesterday she watched Vanya while I was finishing a project. The day before she rolled cabbage rolls for the whole week.”

“But it’s your territory!”

Alina paused, thinking.

“You know what I’ve realized? You can spend years fighting for the right to store pots your way. Or you can just live. I chose the second.”

Valentina Pavlovna walked in at that moment with a pie and caught the last words. She met Alina’s eyes and smiled — warmly, honestly. They understood each other without needing to say anything. Two women who chose peace over war.

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