My son Paulo had been married to Mira for only a week. Their wedding in Batangas was simple—no grand hotel, no crystal chandeliers—just our church, plastic chairs under a tarp, pots of pancit and kaldereta steaming on long tables. Yet it was perfect: laughter loud enough to rattle the windows, tears that tasted of hope, and promises made with steady voices and shining eyes.
From the first moment, Mira seemed like the ideal daughter-in-law. Gentle, unfailingly polite, and generous with her smile, she greeted every auntie with two hands and called every elder “Tita,” “Tito,” or “Nanay” as if she’d known us all her life. Even the neighbors who rarely praise anyone could not stop complimenting her.
“We’re blessed to welcome such a graceful daughter-in-law,” I told my market friends, my chest lifting with pride.
But only a few days after the wedding, something began to trouble me.
The secret of the sheets
Each morning, without fail, Mira gathered the bed linens—sheets, blankets, pillowcases—and carried them outside to wash and leave in the sun. Sometimes she changed them twice in one day, as if the bed itself were an altar that demanded constant renewal.
One afternoon I finally asked, “Why do you change the bed linens every day, hija?”
She gave me that soft, careful smile. “I’m allergic to dust, Nanay. I sleep better when everything is fresh.”
It sounded reasonable, yet the explanation sat oddly in my chest. All the linens were new, chosen with care for the wedding—cotton crisp as a page, scented faintly of lavender. No one in our family had allergies. And still she laundered and laundered, the white fabric a flag she raised against some invisible enemy.
Little by little, suspicion took root. She was hiding something. I just didn’t know what.
The devastating discovery
One morning I pretended I needed to go early to the market. I shut the gate loudly, then circled back and slipped inside. When I heard Mira moving in the kitchen, I hurried down the hall and opened their bedroom door.
A metallic tang seized the air. My heart lurched. I stepped toward the bed and lifted the sheet.
My knees nearly gave way. The mattress—white when new—was blotched and soaked with blood. Not the bright, familiar stain of a woman’s cycle; this was darker, heavier, like sorrow itself had seeped into the cotton.
Cold fingers seemed to close around my throat. I yanked open a drawer. Inside were rolls of bandages, a bottle of antiseptic, and an undershirt neatly folded… marred with dried brown-red. Evidence arranged with the care of a secret ritual.
Mira’s truth
I ran to the kitchen, seized Mira gently but firmly by the wrist, and led her back to the room.
“Explain this,” I said, my voice shaking. “What’s happening? Why all this blood? Why are you hiding it from me?”
For a heartbeat she said nothing. Her hands trembled; her lips quivered. Tears brimmed, and she seemed to collapse inward, as if holding up a heavy roof alone. Then she fell against me and sobbed into my shoulder.
“Nanay—Paulo has advanced-stage leukemia,” she whispered. “The doctors said he might have only a few months. We rushed the wedding because I couldn’t leave him. I wanted to be with him… however short the time.”
Everything inside me cracked. My son—my playful boy who used to run fishbones to the cat and joke with the vendors—had carried this monster alone. He’d hidden the truth to protect me, the way he used to hide his scraped knees when he was small because he knew I worried too much.
A mother’s decision
I did not sleep that night. I lay awake, staring at the ceiling, listening to the soft wash of the night wind and the far-off hum of tricycles. I imagined the pain Paulo must have been swallowing, the quiet battle fought in the shadows of our home. I pictured Mira tenderly changing those sheets, washing away fear with soap and sunlight, guarding his dignity one careful fold at a time.
At dawn I rose, tied my hair back, and went straight to the market. I bought new sheets—plain, sturdy cotton that would be gentle on his skin—and brought home bleach and extra basins. I helped Mira wash the old ones, our hands reddening in the soapy water, our mouths speaking little. From then on, I woke early every day to be there—for her, for him, for both of them.
One morning, as we stretched a clean sheet across the mattress, the two of us moving in unspoken rhythm, I pulled her into my arms.
“Thank you, Mira,” I said. “For loving my son. For staying. For choosing him, even knowing you would lose him.”
After all…
Three months later, in the hush before sunrise, Paulo slipped away. There was no thunder, no drama—just a soft exhale, a loosening. Mira was at his side, her fingers laced through his, whispering “I love you” again and again, as if those words could light the path ahead. His face grew calm, a faint smile touching his lips, as though he had finally reached a shore where pain could not follow.
After the funeral, Mira did not pack a suitcase. She did not return to her parents’ house. She did not chase a new life somewhere far away. She stayed—with me. We began to run our little food stall together, side by side behind the counter. She learned which regulars liked extra chili, which uncles preferred their rice a little crusty from the pot, which children would grin if you added a sliver more of lumpia. In the evenings we sat on the step, letting the day breathe out around us.
It has been two years now. People still ask, curious and kind, “Why is Mira still living with you?” I only smile. Some bonds are written on paper; others are written in blood, in sweat, in sleepless nights and folded sheets.
“She wasn’t only my son’s wife,” I say. “She became my daughter, too. This will always be her home.”